Have you ever felt like you’re saving money just because you’re supposed to—without a clear goal? I used to be the same. Growing up, my parents always played it safe with money. They never talked about investing, long-term financial planning, or how to actually use money as a tool for freedom. Naturally, I adopted the same mindset—save now, figure it out later.

That changed when my family prepared to move from Mexico to Indonesia. I looked at my savings and asked my husband, “Until when do we need to save? What’s the actual goal?” That moment sparked a major financial shift in my life. Since then, I’ve become more intentional with my money—I still enjoy life, but now I sleep better at night knowing I have a plan.

Here are the five budgeting hacks I wish someone had told me sooner:

1. List Down Your Net-worth

Everything starts here. Take a moment to write down every single thing you own (assets) and everything you owe (liabilities). Assets include financial savings, real estate, and valuable personal items. Liabilities cover debts, loans, or anything you still need to pay off.

Your net worth is simply the difference between the two. This number gives you a starting point—and trust me, having clarity on where you stand financially is incredibly empowering.

2. Define Your Saving Goals

Now, let’s answer my old question: What’s the goal?

To put it simply, most saving goals would involve long-term goals (e.g., retirement fund, education fund for the kids) and present goals (e.g., emergency fund).

This strategy is enough to set a direction while having a safety net for your present moment.

3. Know Your Number

Once you have goals, it’s time to put actual numbers to them.

For example, when planning your emergency fund, the general rule of thumb is to save at least 3 months’ worth of expenses. However, if you have kids, an unstable job, or are self-employed, it’s wise to build up 6-12 months’ worth instead.

For bigger goals like retirement or education funds, you can use free online calculators to estimate how much you need. When I first started, I was completely clueless, so I hired a financial consultant to help me. If that’s not in your budget, just start with research—having some idea is better than none!

4. Set The Timeline

Goals without deadlines are just dreams. Setting a timeline is crucial for success. Ask yourself:

• When will I need this money? (e.g., 10 years from now, 3 years from now, next year?)
• How much time do I have to build up my savings?
• Can I afford to take investment risks based on my timeframe?

For long-term goals like retirement, you have more time and can consider riskier investments. For short-term goals like an emergency fund, safety comes first, and you’ll want easily accessible savings. But always choose an investment type that you are comfortable with. Remember, you still want to sleep better at night. I learned about it from The Psychology of Money book, maybe you should read it too!

One of the best lessons I’ve learned? Assess your goals every month—things change, and so should your financial plan!

5. Break It Down to Monthly Target

Now that you know your goal, your number, and your timeline, let’s break it down into actionable steps. Divide your savings goal by the number of months you have left to reach it.

Then, look at your income and expenses:

• Is your monthly savings target realistic?
• Do you need to cut unnecessary spending?
• Would increasing your income help?

Remember, you can’t have it all at once. Sometimes, you’ll need to adjust your goals, make trade-offs, or focus on one priority at a time. That’s okay!

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Budgeting shouldn’t be stressful—it should be empowering. By following these five steps, you’ll gain a clear picture of your financial situation and make confident decisions.

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